{"id":1631,"date":"2024-01-26T06:38:58","date_gmt":"2024-01-26T06:38:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/?p=1631"},"modified":"2026-04-02T21:42:08","modified_gmt":"2026-04-02T20:42:08","slug":"blaming-the-innocent-and-excusing-the-guilty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/blaming-the-innocent-and-excusing-the-guilty\/","title":{"rendered":"Blaming the innocent and excusing the guilty&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1631\" class=\"elementor elementor-1631\" data-elementor-settings=\"{&quot;ha_cmc_init_switcher&quot;:&quot;no&quot;}\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7a695f02 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"7a695f02\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" 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\/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43e43d62 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"43e43d62\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Tonight I was unable to sleep a wink and, I found myself thinking about things that make me crazy \u2026 I am increasingly shocked by the news I hear, and I wonder where this world will end?! Despite being about to make a comparison at first sight \u2018stupid\u2019, understanding why and the reasons behind it will help it to make perfect sense \u2026 (at least for me it does!)<\/p><p><br><\/p>\n<div><b><u><i>BULLYING&nbsp;\u2013<\/i><\/u><\/b> children and young people who suffer from this type of barbaric behaviour (regardless of the degree of severity exercised in the acts, never ceases to be!), they often try to hide what happened, whether it happens once, twice or daily \u2026 Why? Mostly, they do not understand why. They feel ashamed, they are silenced with more threats and, generally, low self-esteem leads victims to think that, in some way, they are guilty, that they probably did something to deserve it, even though they cannot understand the reasons!&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><b>VICTIMS OF ABUSE AND \/ OR VIOLENCE (domestic or not)&nbsp;\u2013<\/b> victims of this type of horrifying barbarity when children or young people feel the same way as victims of bullying, try to hide, deny, feel shame and guilt \u2026 that they deserved \u2026Why is this?<\/div>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>Let\u2019s think about&nbsp;<b>the society<\/b>&nbsp;we have. A quick review! Firstly, how are the victims seen as? What are the most frequently asked questions?<\/p>\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-969cf6e elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"969cf6e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4f5f8685 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4f5f8685\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>&#8211; Where and how did it happen?<\/p><p>&#8211; Are you sure it happened like that?<\/p><p>&#8211; But what did you do? I\u2019m sure you did something\u2026 what was it?<\/p><p>&#8211; Why do you want to be a victim? You just want to draw attention to yourself\u2026 don\u2019t you think you\u2019re exaggerating?!?! Forget it, <b><i>YOU<\/i><\/b>\u00a0don\u2019t want to ruin anyone\u2019s life.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c53453a elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"6c53453a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-435613b8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"435613b8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Now, instead of trying to understand what really happened, we try to create even more doubts and help victims to blame themselves even more. Why is it that, instead of trying to solve a problem, you try to stifle it, hide it, as if it had been part of the victim\u2019s imagination? Is it even questioned that it really happened?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><br><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><u><i>IN SUMMARY:<\/i><\/u>&nbsp;initially the victim is a liar, just wants attention and doesn\u2019t even have an opportunity to be heard. <\/strong>When it comes, <i><u><b>many times to the inevitable,<\/b><\/u><\/i> then everyone regrets not believing in the first place\u2026 If more and more the news are the most atrocious and unthinkable, why not think, at least, as a possibility? There are stories that will be true and others that will not, but I would rather have a clean conscience of having helped someone who, allegedly suffered from a problem than, turning away and later regret not being there for the person or having simply ignored. How is it possible for mothers and fathers to put their children in these situations and then to doubt them or turn their backs in order to \u201cdon\u2019t get\u201d problems \u2013 according to them??? They are often the ones who try to silence their children because there is no way for them to make things public. Why?! It can be because they will be harmed or because they still need the person or the family of those who are supposedly being incriminated \u2013 this is true either in one case or another. How can mothers \/ fathers question their children\u2019s words and believe in someone who is nothing to them? Isn\u2019t it their duty to protect their children at all costs and above all??? How is it that more and more stories are heard of stepfathers \/ stepmothers doing harm to children and the supposed mothers \/ fathers take the side of the guilty to the victims? Or worse, blaming those who, innocently and who were not protected, suffered due to the mothers \/ fathers\u2019 selfishness???!!!<\/p>\n<p><strong><br><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>For me, I don\u2019t know who will be most guilty: the aggressor or the one who allowed and \/ or (sometimes, directly or indirectly) subjected the victim(s) to such situation\u2026 <\/strong>For me, if the opportunities are not provided, then they have less chance of happening \u2026 It does not mean that they do not happen, but at least we are not the propellers of such opportunities. No one can \u2018swear on their lives\u2019 that they know someone 100%, not even those who have lived together for many years!!! We \u2013 ourselves \u2013 sometimes do things that we didn\u2019t think we were capable of; how can we say that we know others if we don\u2019t know ourselves?!? I would not be able to live with that weight on my conscience, much less having knowledge of certain situations and simply ignoring them!!! But this is me!!! Unfortunately, there are those who do not think so, but who, just think of themselves and their own egos!!! This revolts me strongly and even, no matter how hard I try, I cannot understand \u2026 it is something that transcends me!!!<\/p>\n<p><br><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Am I the only one to think this way??? Do we have the right to think this way or does it depend on the situation? Are we willing to make sacrifices for those we love or are we selfish enough to think that we have already suffered a lot in life and that we must try to be happy at all costs, if this is the only opportunity that life has given us?<\/p>\n<p><br><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>Let\u2019s think: who will be there for us when we need them??? If we do not take the correct positions afterwards, we will not be able to judge those who, supposedly, would be the ones who \u2018owed\u2019 us this, not out of obligation, but because they want to \u2026 I do not judge these people who, when these so-called \u2018parents\u2019 did not protect them, later they hope that their children will take care of them and they will do the same!!! I don\u2019t really judge them because my position would be the same!!! 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elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-box\" data-id=\"635de11\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-box.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-box-wrapper\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-box-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t<span  class=\"elementor-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-share-alt\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-box-content\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-icon-box-title\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span  >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\ud83c\udf81Sharing is caring! \t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-icon-box-description\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\tSo, don't forget to pass this on to your friends! \ud83d\ude0a\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element 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little one?<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            I\u2019m wondering how it will be when you are next to me,\nHave you in my arms, feel your ...                       \r\n        <\/div>\r\n        <i class=\"rhicon rhi-arrow-right rehub-main-color whitehovered font130 csstranstrans rh-hovered-rotate position-relative\"><\/i>\r\n    <\/div>                                     \r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t  \r\n<div class=\"flowhidden col_item rh-shadow3 rehub-sec-smooth rh-hover-up whitebg rh-main-bg-hover csstransall position-relative rh-hovered-wrap\">\r\n<a class=\"abdfullwidth zind2\" href=\"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/mirror-vs-x-ray\/\" title=\"Mirror vs X-Ray\"><\/a>\r\n<div class=\"rh-borderinside rh-hovered-scale pointernone\"><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"padd20 position-relative zind1\">\r\n    <div class=\"pt10 pr20 pl20 pb10\">\r\n        <div class=\"mt0 mb10 font70 colorgridtext upper-text-trans rehub-main-color whitehovered catforcgrid\">JoTita Gon\u00e7alves \u2013 Me \"naked and raw\" bluntly<\/div>\r\n        <h3 class=\"mb30 mt0 font120 lineheight20 colorgridtitle whitehovered\">Mirror vs X-Ray<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            A small\u00a0but round face,\n\nbrown eyes\u00a0that shine like they\u2019 re smiling.\n\nThe nose\u00a0a little ...                       \r\n        <\/div>\r\n        <i class=\"rhicon rhi-arrow-right rehub-main-color whitehovered font130 csstranstrans rh-hovered-rotate position-relative\"><\/i>\r\n    <\/div>                                     \r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t  \r\n<div class=\"flowhidden col_item rh-shadow3 rehub-sec-smooth rh-hover-up whitebg rh-main-bg-hover csstransall position-relative rh-hovered-wrap\">\r\n<a class=\"abdfullwidth zind2\" href=\"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/follow-your-heart\/\" title=\"\u201cFollow your heart!\u201d\"><\/a>\r\n<div class=\"rh-borderinside rh-hovered-scale pointernone\"><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"padd20 position-relative zind1\">\r\n    <div class=\"pt10 pr20 pl20 pb10\">\r\n        <div class=\"mt0 mb10 font70 colorgridtext upper-text-trans rehub-main-color whitehovered catforcgrid\">JoTita Gon\u00e7alves \u2013 Me \"naked and raw\" bluntly<\/div>\r\n        <h3 class=\"mb30 mt0 font120 lineheight20 colorgridtitle whitehovered\">\u201cFollow your heart!\u201d<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            Have you ever heard or even used the expression\u00a0\u201cFollow your heart!\u201d\u00a0before? I\u2019m sure you ...                       \r\n        <\/div>\r\n        <i class=\"rhicon rhi-arrow-right rehub-main-color whitehovered font130 csstranstrans rh-hovered-rotate position-relative\"><\/i>\r\n    <\/div>                                     \r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t  \r\n<div class=\"flowhidden col_item rh-shadow3 rehub-sec-smooth rh-hover-up whitebg rh-main-bg-hover csstransall position-relative rh-hovered-wrap\">\r\n<a class=\"abdfullwidth zind2\" href=\"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/im-not-a-victim-but-a-warrior-and-survivor\/\" title=\"I\u2019m not a victim, but a warrior and survivor!\"><\/a>\r\n<div class=\"rh-borderinside rh-hovered-scale pointernone\"><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"padd20 position-relative zind1\">\r\n    <div class=\"pt10 pr20 pl20 pb10\">\r\n        <div class=\"mt0 mb10 font70 colorgridtext upper-text-trans rehub-main-color whitehovered catforcgrid\">JoTita Gon\u00e7alves \u2013 Me \"naked and raw\" bluntly<\/div>\r\n        <h3 class=\"mb30 mt0 font120 lineheight20 colorgridtitle whitehovered\">I\u2019m not a victim, but a warrior and survivor!<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            Today, I feel the need to talk about something that I\u2019ve been keeping inside me for too ...                       \r\n        <\/div>\r\n        <i class=\"rhicon rhi-arrow-right rehub-main-color whitehovered font130 csstranstrans rh-hovered-rotate position-relative\"><\/i>\r\n    <\/div>                                     \r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t  \r\n<div class=\"flowhidden col_item rh-shadow3 rehub-sec-smooth rh-hover-up whitebg rh-main-bg-hover csstransall position-relative rh-hovered-wrap\">\r\n<a class=\"abdfullwidth zind2\" href=\"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/the-me-naked-and-raw\/\" title=\"The ME \u2013 naked and raw! &#8230;\"><\/a>\r\n<div class=\"rh-borderinside rh-hovered-scale pointernone\"><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"padd20 position-relative zind1\">\r\n    <div class=\"pt10 pr20 pl20 pb10\">\r\n        <div class=\"mt0 mb10 font70 colorgridtext upper-text-trans rehub-main-color whitehovered catforcgrid\">JoTita Gon\u00e7alves \u2013 Me \"naked and raw\" bluntly<\/div>\r\n        <h3 class=\"mb30 mt0 font120 lineheight20 colorgridtitle whitehovered\">The ME \u2013 naked and raw! &#8230;<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            The ME - naked and raw! ...\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\tAmazon\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\tInstagram ...                       \r\n        <\/div>\r\n        <i class=\"rhicon rhi-arrow-right rehub-main-color whitehovered font130 csstranstrans rh-hovered-rotate position-relative\"><\/i>\r\n    <\/div>                                     \r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t  \r\n<div class=\"flowhidden col_item rh-shadow3 rehub-sec-smooth rh-hover-up whitebg rh-main-bg-hover csstransall position-relative rh-hovered-wrap\">\r\n<a class=\"abdfullwidth zind2\" href=\"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/oh-how-do-i-miss-you-nelinha\/\" title=\"Oh&#8230; how do I miss you&#8230; Nelinha!\"><\/a>\r\n<div class=\"rh-borderinside rh-hovered-scale pointernone\"><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"padd20 position-relative zind1\">\r\n    <div class=\"pt10 pr20 pl20 pb10\">\r\n        <div class=\"mt0 mb10 font70 colorgridtext upper-text-trans rehub-main-color whitehovered catforcgrid\">JoTita Gon\u00e7alves \u2013 Me \"naked and raw\" bluntly<\/div>\r\n        <h3 class=\"mb30 mt0 font120 lineheight20 colorgridtitle whitehovered\">Oh&#8230; how do I miss you&#8230; Nelinha!<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            Oh... how do I miss you... Nelinha! ?????\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\tAmazon\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t ...                       \r\n        <\/div>\r\n        <i class=\"rhicon rhi-arrow-right rehub-main-color whitehovered font130 csstranstrans rh-hovered-rotate position-relative\"><\/i>\r\n    <\/div>                                     \r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t  \r\n<div class=\"flowhidden col_item rh-shadow3 rehub-sec-smooth rh-hover-up whitebg rh-main-bg-hover csstransall position-relative rh-hovered-wrap\">\r\n<a class=\"abdfullwidth zind2\" href=\"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/bad-news-ill-fight\/\" title=\"Bad news?! I&#8217;ll fight!&#8230;\"><\/a>\r\n<div class=\"rh-borderinside rh-hovered-scale pointernone\"><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"padd20 position-relative zind1\">\r\n    <div class=\"pt10 pr20 pl20 pb10\">\r\n        <div class=\"mt0 mb10 font70 colorgridtext upper-text-trans rehub-main-color whitehovered catforcgrid\">JoTita Gon\u00e7alves \u2013 Me \"naked and raw\" bluntly<\/div>\r\n        <h3 class=\"mb30 mt0 font120 lineheight20 colorgridtitle whitehovered\">Bad news?! I&#8217;ll fight!&#8230;<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            Bad news?! I'll fight!...\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\tAmazon\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\tInstagram\n\t ...                       \r\n        <\/div>\r\n        <i class=\"rhicon rhi-arrow-right rehub-main-color whitehovered font130 csstranstrans rh-hovered-rotate position-relative\"><\/i>\r\n    <\/div>                                     \r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t  \r\n<div class=\"flowhidden col_item rh-shadow3 rehub-sec-smooth rh-hover-up whitebg rh-main-bg-hover csstransall position-relative rh-hovered-wrap\">\r\n<a class=\"abdfullwidth zind2\" href=\"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/you-marina-%f0%9f%92%99\/\" title=\"You&#8230; Marina\"><\/a>\r\n<div class=\"rh-borderinside rh-hovered-scale pointernone\"><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"padd20 position-relative zind1\">\r\n    <div class=\"pt10 pr20 pl20 pb10\">\r\n        <div class=\"mt0 mb10 font70 colorgridtext upper-text-trans rehub-main-color whitehovered catforcgrid\">JoTita Gon\u00e7alves \u2013 Me \"naked and raw\" bluntly<\/div>\r\n        <h3 class=\"mb30 mt0 font120 lineheight20 colorgridtitle whitehovered\">You&#8230; Marina<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            There is someone that I've known for a long time... Since I'm 14 years old to be more ...                       \r\n        <\/div>\r\n        <i class=\"rhicon rhi-arrow-right rehub-main-color whitehovered font130 csstranstrans rh-hovered-rotate position-relative\"><\/i>\r\n    <\/div>                                     \r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t  \r\n<div class=\"flowhidden col_item rh-shadow3 rehub-sec-smooth rh-hover-up whitebg rh-main-bg-hover csstransall position-relative rh-hovered-wrap\">\r\n<a class=\"abdfullwidth zind2\" href=\"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/numb-in-a-selfish-world\/\" title=\"Numb in a selfish world\"><\/a>\r\n<div class=\"rh-borderinside rh-hovered-scale pointernone\"><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"padd20 position-relative zind1\">\r\n    <div class=\"pt10 pr20 pl20 pb10\">\r\n        <div class=\"mt0 mb10 font70 colorgridtext upper-text-trans rehub-main-color whitehovered catforcgrid\">JoTita Gon\u00e7alves \u2013 Me \"naked and raw\" bluntly<\/div>\r\n        <h3 class=\"mb30 mt0 font120 lineheight20 colorgridtitle whitehovered\">Numb in a selfish world<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            Numb in a selfish world\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\tAmazon\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\tInstagram\n\t\t\t ...                       \r\n        <\/div>\r\n        <i class=\"rhicon rhi-arrow-right rehub-main-color whitehovered font130 csstranstrans rh-hovered-rotate position-relative\"><\/i>\r\n    <\/div>                                     \r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t  \r\n<div class=\"flowhidden col_item rh-shadow3 rehub-sec-smooth rh-hover-up whitebg rh-main-bg-hover csstransall position-relative rh-hovered-wrap\">\r\n<a class=\"abdfullwidth zind2\" href=\"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/friend-im-here-for-you-%f0%9f%92%9a%f0%9f%a4%8d%f0%9f%92%99\/\" title=\"Friend&#8230; I&#8217;m here for you&#8230;\"><\/a>\r\n<div class=\"rh-borderinside rh-hovered-scale pointernone\"><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"padd20 position-relative zind1\">\r\n    <div class=\"pt10 pr20 pl20 pb10\">\r\n        <div class=\"mt0 mb10 font70 colorgridtext upper-text-trans rehub-main-color whitehovered catforcgrid\">JoTita Gon\u00e7alves \u2013 Me \"naked and raw\" bluntly<\/div>\r\n        <h3 class=\"mb30 mt0 font120 lineheight20 colorgridtitle whitehovered\">Friend&#8230; I&#8217;m here for you&#8230;<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            Friend... I am here for you...! ???\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\tAmazon\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t ...                       \r\n        <\/div>\r\n        <i class=\"rhicon rhi-arrow-right rehub-main-color whitehovered font130 csstranstrans rh-hovered-rotate position-relative\"><\/i>\r\n    <\/div>                                     \r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t  \r\n<div class=\"flowhidden col_item rh-shadow3 rehub-sec-smooth rh-hover-up whitebg rh-main-bg-hover csstransall position-relative rh-hovered-wrap\">\r\n<a class=\"abdfullwidth zind2\" href=\"https:\/\/jotitagoncalves.com\/pt-pt\/how-to-let-you-go-help-needed\/\" title=\"How to let you go?! Help needed!&#8230;\"><\/a>\r\n<div class=\"rh-borderinside rh-hovered-scale pointernone\"><\/div>\r\n<div class=\"padd20 position-relative zind1\">\r\n    <div class=\"pt10 pr20 pl20 pb10\">\r\n        <div class=\"mt0 mb10 font70 colorgridtext upper-text-trans rehub-main-color whitehovered catforcgrid\">JoTita Gon\u00e7alves \u2013 Me \"naked and raw\" bluntly<\/div>\r\n        <h3 class=\"mb30 mt0 font120 lineheight20 colorgridtitle whitehovered\">How to let you go?! Help needed!&#8230;<\/h3>\r\n        <div class=\"mb15 font90 colorgridtext greycolor whitehovered  excerptforcgrid\">                                 \r\n            How to let you go?! 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